This is my blog where I publicize parts of my life that are probably best left private and unsaid. Expressions from the soft underbelly of my mind. Focusing on my androgynous, transgender, genderqueer, LGBTQIAQ et cetera life.
I am a soft and delicate child of the night, raised in the sprawling wastelands of SoCal.
I, Valentine Lovecraft was born in the early 1970s in Los Angeles. I am an androgyne, meaning I have both male and female characteristics. I was raised as a male, but now live my life publicly as a female. My childhood was rather gender neutral, but during early puberty I realized that I did not fit the standard boy or girl persona. I identified as androgynous for my teen years. After High School I escaped Los Angeles to go to college in San Francisco. There I spent a decade and change living as a bisexual boy that looked like a gay boy. After college I began cross dressing, and it quickly became apparent that I wanted to be a woman. I was horribly afraid of what my family would think, and what would become of my career. After about 11 years as fronting as a man after my realization, I decided to transition to living as a woman all the time. I am happy I made the choice, but it has been difficult. Still, I believe it is much easier and more well understood to be trans today than it was even 10 years ago.